Almost every woman dreams of having a perfect husband. You probably know that perfect people don’t truly exist, so you should choose among those around you. When it comes to finding a perfect man, there are many factors we consider — his appearance, his brain, his personal traits and his social circle.
Unfortunately, the first impression can be deceptive. Even if a man seems amazing to you, don’t rush to build a relationship with him. Before making a serious choice, make sure a man is reliable and decent.
In this article, we would like to show you five types of men you should stay away from. Believe us, relationships with these types of men won’t make you happy. Are you interested? Scroll down to read this article right now.
1. A LOSER
If a thirty-five years old man still lives with his parents and doesn’t have a normal job, he is not your perfect boyfriend. Yes, a right woman is able to inspire man to succeed, but only if this man wants to do something to achieve a success.
If he is lazy and often shifts the blame on other people and circumstances — he just likes to suffer. A woman can try to help him to start a new life, but instead of gratitude he will take her down with him.
2. AN ADDICT OR ALCOHOLIC
Any addiction is a voluntary choice of a person and a heavy burden on people who surround him. It is very difficult to treat addiction, because the results depend on the willpower and the strong desire of an addicted person to treat an addiction.
Yes, the history knows examples when a woman saved an addicted man, helped him overcome his addiction and built a happy family with him. However, these cases are unique.
Building relationships with an addict or alcoholic is like the roulette game. If you are ready to sacrifice yourself and your time in order to save a man you love, you can try. But if not, stay away from alcoholics and addicts.
3. A CONTROLLING MAN
It can be so hard to recognize this type of man at the beginning of the relationship, when it’s easy to confuse control with care. However, the more you get closer to this type of man, the more controlling he would become.
First you see him as a perfect boyfriend who acts confidently — calls and texts you, asks you out or suddenly comes to you with a bunch of flowers. But later, you will realize that this man never asks what you want.
As a result, you follow him everywhere he wants and watch movies he likes even if you don’t like these type of movies. When you move in with this man, you find that he doesn’t like your friends, quarrels with your family and asks you to change your hairstyle.
You find yourself losing contact with family, friends, and activities you once enjoyed. These men are usually losers — they never admit their failures and they try to find a woman to dominate over her.
4. A FANTASIST
First, we wanted to name this type of men “liars”, but we found out that there is a huge difference between liars and fantasists. A liar lies to get some benefits, while a fantasist creates an imaginary world and sincerely believes in it.
Why does he do that? He may lead a double life. For example: When a man hides the fact that he is married — he confidently says that he is single to get women in bed. He understands that any woman won’t agree to become his mistress at once.
Or when you meet a guy through internet dating, who is telling you that he is madly in love with you. He is planning the future life with you, he claims that he will marry you someday and you will have beautiful children. But he is not able to take the first step — come and meet you. In reality, he doesn’t need you, he just loves fantasizing about the future.
5. A MAN WHO CANNOT GET OVER HIS PAST RELATIONSHIPS
This type of man is truly addicted to his past. How can you recognize a man who cannot get over his past relationships? Very easy! For example: It can me a man who have been divorced for ten years, but continue sharing the apartment with his ex-wife.
Or It can be a man who doesn’t live together with his girlfriend for five years, but still calling each other to sort out their relationship. Why should you stay away from this type of man? If you will start a relationship with this type of man, you will become a part of his drama. If you want to feel happy and comfortable in a relationship, you should stay away from his past relationship dramas.