Women are amazing with some of their qualities. For example, any woman can do the same thing all the time and expect a different result, regardless of age and the level of education. How to get out of this vicious circle?
Because of such actions, women often have problems in their relationship. The behavior of the partner is a reaction to your actions, this is an indisputable fact. If you want to be happy, you should change some familiar things that you do not even attach importance to.
These features of behavior have their sad consequences! The psychology of relationship between the sexes is always filled with various troubles and emotional experiences. Some need it just like air. However, all this brings only unnecessary suffering to most couples. Let’s look at 6 most common errors that women make in their relationship:
1. A LONG GAME OF INTROSPECTION.
In women’s forums, you can often read that a man is a hunter, and every self-respecting woman should always be a little inaccessible: quick extraction is not so desirable and interesting. In turn, many men remind that they are not hunters, but ordinary people who also have complexes, fears and experiences. Sometimes it is not so simple for a man to take the first step as it can seem. For a man (especially at an early stage) it is extremely important to feel a reciprocal interest from the woman. Only few men are ready to knock on closed doors for a long time and persistently wait until the object of their interest finally answers at least with some kind of reciprocity. Women, if you really like someone – do not be afraid to show it, try to take the initiative. However, you should not overdo it.
2. LACK OF FAITH IN OWN BEAUTY.
There are a lot of beautiful girls who are very unsure of themselves. Perhaps this is due to the fact that all are accustomed to comparing themselves with photo models on glossy covers and friends from social networks, where it is customary to show off achievements, and not to advertise failures. At the same time, there are not very attractive individuals who are fond of themselves so much that they make everyone around believe in their own attractiveness. In a relationship with men, it works in a similar way. People believe what you are broadcasting. You can not constantly engage in public self-flagellation and talk to men only about your shortcomings and complexes: sooner or later they will believe your words.
3. DESIRE TO COMPLETELY DISSOLVE IN A MAN.
Some ladies are literally obsessed with their men and their interests. It is vitally important to be 24 hours together for such a woman, and existence without a young man turns out to be unbearable. People, regardless of gender, want to see an equal partner with their own opinions and positions of life. Did you have a life before meeting your partner? Do not forget about it: meet your friends and remember about your hobbies. Men appreciate women’s initiative. Do not hesitate to offer something to your partner.
4. FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND YOUR CAREER.
It seems that this error is often committed by men. However, as practice shows, women who do not confine themselves to the role of housewives, get into this trap very often. Career ambitions, rich creative life, meeting with friends – there can be a lot excuses not to appear at home and do not spend time with the loved man. We all want to be interested in, and to be appreciated. Of course, having your own life is good. However, a measure is needed here: often such obsessions do not allow many women to build a healthy and happy relationship.
5. BEING SILENT.
Any, even the greatest relationship can be spoiled if there is no normal communication between two people. Conflicts and misunderstandings in a relationship are a natural part of our life. As practice shows, it is better not to avoid conflicts, but to try to resolve them. The main thing is to allow both sides to speak and to be heard.
6. STORIES ABOUT PAST RELATIONSHIPS.
Sometimes women start talking about their past relationships not for some comparison with current men. However, man can start trying everything on themselves. This awkwardness can not be avoided in both cases: when ex-boyfriends are very praised and when they are scolded. You should not talk much about your ex-men. The less your partner knows the better he sleeps. Live the present, not the past.